Lucille RosettiMaking big changes in your life after losing a loved one can seem overwhelming, but there are some things you can alter that will help you move forward. Moving to a new home or to a new city is a major step, but the change in scenery may allow you to imagine a new roadmap for yourself, one that helps you regain your strength and happiness. There are several things you can do to make the process a smooth and stress-free one, including getting organized, finding a job, and planning out the next few months. Get started with the following ideas.
Organize
When it comes to making a move, the best way to get started is to get organized so that nothing is overlooked. One of the most essential tasks you’ll need to perform is getting together any paperwork pertaining to your home so that a sale will go smoothly. This might include the title and deed, property tax information, and homeowners’ insurance documents, as well as information about your mortgage and any inspections or major repairs. If you do this before you put the house on the market, you’ll have a leg up on the process because you’ll be able to provide all the important info to potential buyers, which will make the entire thing go much faster.
If you’re going to be moving to a new city, it’s also a good idea to gather anything you’ll need for a job search. Work history and information on references are a great start.
Check Out the New Area
Once you’ve found an area you like, visit it before making any final decisions. If possible, stay for a day or two and get a feel for the neighborhood and surrounding communities. Check out the local schools, traffic, and shops, and find out where your favorite restaurants and stores are located. If the location is too far away to do this in person, you can always hop online and take a virtual tour via Google. This is a great way to get the lay of the land before you move, which will help you feel more comfortable and at ease in your new place.
Make Some Difficult Decisions
When we lose a loved one, some of the hardest decisions we face involve figuring out what to do with their belongings. Clothing can be donated, although many people have found comfort in saving one favorite article and turning it into a pillowcase or other memory item. Sentimental belongings can be stored safely or given to family members, but keep in mind that if it’s something that someone else can get some use out of, it’s often best to donate or sell it. Keeping physical items can leave you feeling unable to move forward, and you might not have the room for them in your new place. Give yourself some time to think about what you want to do.
Find Some Support
Moving can be a challenging change on its own, but when it comes after a loss, it can be a bit overwhelming. Having support from friends or loved ones can make all the difference and can allow you to find some peace in your decision, so ask for help with the move or with packing up. Even if it’s only for a few hours, having someone there with you will make the process less lonely, which is wonderful for your mental health. If you don’t have anyone nearby, consider looking online for a support group that can help you get through the loss and life change.
Making big decisions after a loss is often discouraged, but moving can be a positive influence on your ability to find peace as long as it’s done the right way. By preparing as much as possible and asking for support, you can ensure that a move is the best choice for you.